How do you whish your parents to be?

“You never walk alone”

Adama of Telos

by Evelyn Kümmerle 

08.06.2008

True parental love

Builds up trust and faith.

A lack in parental love

Influences all the lifetime

And accordingly

Any  lifetime is blessed

By a childhood

Filled with love

Of caring parents

Who make you know that

YOU NEVER WALK ALONE!

Adama: This is Adama, dear. Am I talking to the “Girl from Ipanema”? (on that day I wore a new t-shirt with a printing “the girl from Ipanema”, with a rainbow on it, which in general seems to carry some magic with it, as always when I wear this the most amazing things happen).

Evelyn: Always good for a little joke, right? So you see my T-Shirt!

Adama: I do. I like the rainbow on it.

Evelyn: I’m not quite sure why I liked this flock coating so much, it somehow seems to be aligned with me.

Adama: I think it fits very well for you. How about getting a t-shirt reading “The girl from Lemuria” or “The Girl from the Inner Earth”? (smiles)

Evelyn: Surely a good idea for a wakeup-call. I was also thinking about “the girl from Thiaoouba”. (pleiadean Planet)

Adama: This would be a real goody. Let’s see what will manifest. May I ask you to have a look at my T-Shirt?

Evelyn: Oh, you are wearing a T-Shirt, how modern. Ooops, with a printing on it reading “The Boy from Telos!” and a Smiley on it!  This is something really funny!

Adama: Well, I thought it would be fine to mention this in case you had forgotten who I am (wide smile) for it’s such a long time since we did the last workout of a download.

Adama:  Now – I’m really glad I have you at hand for a message. I’m getting a lot of inquiries, you know. But I hardly had the heart to contact you while you were still sucking from your Santorini vacation and initiation. .

Evelyn: An initiation?

Adama: Sure. Much happened beyond your awareness. It’s impossible to be there, “upon the head of Mikos/Porthologos” without receiving a big initiation. And you even did not have to miss your favourite music at the pool site. (“somebody” arranged this via the hotel administration, as I did not have a disc-man with me) 

Evelyn: Well, Adama, I’m still  enthusiastic about and amazed. And if you whish you may now go ahead and start with your message.

Adama: So, let’s go.

Dear ones, this subject for today’s cosmic sofa session is one which might bring some memories back to your mind, and not always comfortable ones. It’s about your childhood, your parents – and the love you did receive or not. Before we go into that I heartfelt ask you to make sure you have a comfortable seat at my side. And that you feel my love surrounding you, make sure you know you are safe here in my arms.

On this beautiful planet many people would tell that they have had a harmful childhood. A childhood filled with trauma, cruelty, misuse, pain and tears and so much fear that the only solution seemed to be building up a wall around your heart and soul.

There are those who never came to know their parents, so they would never experience parental love. Some have been lucky to meet gentle people taking over as a substitute. The ones lacking parents whished to have some and the ones having parents whished to have them differently. Indeed, wise and loving parents understanding their big challenge are the minority among all planetary parents.

So, with all these big walls around your heart – making it look more like a tower than a heart – some of you desperately keep running circling around the wall, trying to find the entry – which was in some cases locked already ages ago, - but you somehow do not succeed as you fear to get into a haunted house instead of a holy hall.

So many beings on this planet are not ripe enough for raising children and most of them are hardly aware of the lifelong lasting effects that the “how” of a childhood has on the complete incarnation. Sometimes it’s like children raising up children. And I do not want to go into detail what some poor and tortured minds do with newborn life. All of this is more or less a result from the separation of science and spirituality and a huge lack of soul education. .

Dear ones, I have some good news for you, as you can make a real big leap forward now, if you whish to do so. If you are – in any way – not feeling comfortable with your parents – with your childhood – I tell you that you NOW can make a new start. This does not mean you should deny your parents – however they treated you when you were or still are dependant on them – you can always honour them as the ones who were the carriers of your body incarnate, your chance to be here, and remember that there has been some agreement before you came here into the density of this planet. They might have been your biggest chance for development and you can be thankful out of your deepest heart if you are able to see this chance with your full awareness.

But indeed, there is no more reason to read the book of your childhood again and again. See yourself closing this book with all your gratefulness and metaphorically posting it to the chronics of the universe – or to another place you choose.

Because I now tell you as follows:

 YOU STILL HAVE PARENTS, A FATHER AND A MOTHER, WHO ARE EXACTLY THE LIKE YOU WHISH.

No, I’m not telling you fake. I ask you – if you whish – to make a list and to write down all attributes you whish your parents to be – like e.g. wise, loving, compassionate, always there, humorous, listening, gentle, respectful regarding the needs of your soul ….

Just to mention a few examples. And again I tell you that you HAVE parents who are everything you mentioned on your list.

“Who shall that be”, you might ask. And I will explain it to you NOW.

Deep inside your very heart there is a tool of connection. It has been there all the time, unknown, less experienced, you have forgotten about it. It connects you to the one who wants you heartfelt to regard him as your father.

This tool or fragment is the divine fragment connecting you with your creator of this Universe, the CHRIST, as well as with the mother spirit of this universe. This tool is the evidence that you are part of him and he is part of you. By this tool he is experiencing everything you experience – in all situations – really ALL of them, also the ones that feel uncomfortable for you. You can contact him any time, the same way you can contact me if the need of the whish arises.

CHRIST is your FATHER, the female universal spirit is your MOTHER  - and they are the loving parents of you, child of this universe. They are everything of how you always whished your parents to be. They want to be in aware contact with you, they want to hug you dearly and let you know that wherever you go YOU ARE THEIR BELOVED CHILD in this universe and that YOU NEVER WALK ALONE.

This connection between your father & mother spirit is one of the utmost sustainable ones. As creation, regarded from the celestial spheres, is always about sustainable relationships – be it between planets and their inhabitants or partnership, relationships between lovers – according to the universal rules the aiming at sustainability is the foundation of anything. Living in the NOW moment is never enough. Eve, can we insert here the dialogue we had on behalf of your dear friend about a sustainable partnership?

Yes, of course. (The name will of course not be revealed, but the person knows and agreed to have this published)

Question: Adama, can you give me advice regarding commitment in a marriage? Yesterday my husband avoided to address the future. He told me I should be happy in the NOW moment. This did not feel too good. It feels a bit like “I cannot make any commitment for myself that tomorrow I won’t exchange you against another one who maybe is a better shop window for myself. I’m going to take from you and to give you just what I can right now, but it can end any time and I don’t want to feel bad if I end it, just because I committed myself to make it last. “

Adama: Oh my. You’re still in fear, still lacking self-worth. Why this? I’m talking to a beautiful woman and your soul is well-known in this universe – and you are appearing to be on a material world for the first time.  How do you spell the word “BELIEVE”? How do you integrate that? I know that you are pretty well aware what commitment is all about. You ask me to tell you something about commitment? YOU KNOW ABOUT, sweety.

Adama, I’d like to hear it from you again to receive a confirmation. ^

Adama: So, beloved, I’m going to render you this little favour. Title: Commitment for each other in a relationship. You know pretty well that one can never give a guarantee in a relationship. Situations change, minds change, potentials are being explored, experiences make one feel that they have to be made. But one can – as the celestial teacher Monjoronson mentioned in this teachings (via Daniel Raphael) – put the marker likewise ahead in the future to aim at making a relationship sustainable. Making a relationship sustainable does mean that the partners won’t just deplete the resources of the now but take care that the resources of nurturing the relationship will be nourished to grow and deliver richness also in the future in order to sustain. A part of this is the fundamental point of view the partners have. The “live in the now” mentality in a relationship is lacking the necessities that can provide sustainability. So, your feeling about your husbands statement is pretty well natural, if your are interested in making your relationship sustainable. Regarding him this view results again from his lack of trust in general which was cemented into his being when he was a small child. Anyway this does not help you to establish what you long for, but it helps you understand why this comes to be. A “Live in the now” relationship can never build up the safe and sacred room which is necessary for a rich and intense relationship centered in the heart. What do you confirm by marrying – if not the loving commitment for each other? Otherwise you do not need a partnership.

There must be commitment – not irresolvable by all means, but intended commitment for a long term nourishment of each others existence and heart. Lady Nada mentioned this in her book about Maria Magdalena (By Judy Sion & Tom Kenyon) that a woman can reach the height of cosmic unity just and only in a safe room and in a space of trust and absolute faith. If your husband does not give you emotional commitment he disables you to experience one of the best things that a loving relationship/marriage can deliver. The tragic thing in your relationship is that you are committed to him by 100%, regarding the 3D circumstances now. However he feels that things are going to change and that you are right with everything he does not love to hear because it makes his seemingly known patterns break. He feels the approaching moment where you’ll be back home with your cosmic family  and he projects this on 3D, so he feels that making a commitment for you is not suitable for him. It’s a matter of the mind again. He does not realize that there might be occasions where emotion must be placed above argumentation and decisions of the mind, where the heart weighs heavier than “matters of fact”. Dearly beloved, I’m so compassionate with you. Maybe you get a chance to tell him, maybe not. These things feel to him like playing “nine men’s morris” where he might become closed in without a legal escape. He’s fixed in 3D and has not yet aware embraced the higher model of love and relationship. A child is a child with need to educate and you cannot expect it to be grown up from one day to another. So you will seemingly just have to live with what he’s able to give and to be content with, unless you decide to make a cut to end this. But I see that this is unlikely to happen right now.

So, could I serve you a little bit with my comment?

Thank you so much, Adama. It felt so good to hear that from you.

Adama: You’re welcome, any time.

So, to bring the denominators together: building the connection to your cosmic parents – the CHRIST in his male and female form – will help you to bring sustainability to your lives. Christ is committed to you and longs for you to be committed to him.  It does not mean that you should just  live in some distant future. You SHALL live in the NOW, but you shall live in the now in a manner that is longterm, building up the track for your train to travel a longer route. The connection to your cosmic parents is the foundation for anything in your life that can make your life being called “worth a life”.

You won’t be so thoughtless to build your house on the sandy beach that might be due to be hit by a tsunami, just because it feels fine in the now moment. You won’t put your children at risk, right? With a connection to your cosmic parents – to whom you can talk any time – you will be aiming at being responsible, committed and wise and that kind of parents that you yourself always longed to have. And you will be able to build up a safe shelter that can resist the storms of life.

Here they are, your cosmic parents, as a model role for you, for the planet and all the future.

You can address them as easily as you can address me. If you need some humour they will laugh with you, they will give you advice should you need some. You can imagine them sitting at the same table, as it IS a real family. You can do this likewise with us. YOU NEVER WALK ALONE!  YOU ARE ALWAYS IN BEST COMPANIONSHIP !

And when you return “home” after this school day of incarnation they will give you another heartfelt welcome saying: Beloved child, how was your day at school ?

LET THE DOOR LEADING TO THE INNER ROOM OF YOUR HEART REMAIN OPEN, PLEASE! THIS IS WHERE YOUR ETERNAL PARENTS RESIDE, THIS IS THE PLACE WHERE YOU ARE ALWAYS WELCOME.

Dear ones, there is no raging god, there is no blaming god condemning your deeds. There is just your loving father and mother spirit of this universe, showing you the way to the Eternal Father and Prime Creator, the way of LOVE. .

You, dear one, beloved one here at my side, will always remain the embraced child of the loving divine parents. There is no – ABSOLUTELY NO – reason why your life should not be blessed by the heartfelt parental love.

I hug you in a very heartfelt manner, I AM your eternal friend Adama and I’m also at your side, whenever you need me, may you want to talk with words or without. Just remember the “Boy from Telos”.  See you soon, dear.

Mathou: “You never walk alone”

http://de.youtube.com/watch?v=8AjLBoYmY0c

Ronan Keating: “When you say nothing at all”

http://de.youtube.com/watch?v=mtoP7iWDGeU

“It’s amazing how you can speak right to my heart

without saying a word you can light up the dark,

try as I may I can never explain

what I hear when you don’t say a thing.

The smile in your face let’s me know that you need me

There’s a truth in your eyes saying

You’ll never leave me

The touch of your hand say’s you’ll catch me

Wherever I fall

You say it best when you say nothing at all.

All day long I can hear people talking out loud

But when you hold me near you drown out the crowd.

Try as I may they could never define

What’s being said between your heart and mine. “