Sa-Ra 24: Dealing With People In Bereavement
By through Shellee-Kim
Mar 30, 2014 - 3:59:20 PM
27 March 2014
Tonight beloveds there is more to share. And it's around the topic of bereavement (SK: grief) in the context of the loss of loved ones.
Yes, the subject has been somewhat discussed by the DDD's as Shellee now calls them. And that was from the perspective of you choosing to cut ties with those loved ones whom you feel will not be accompanying you into your future.
Now I elaborate on loss by speaking on the subject from the perspective of those who will have their loved ones wrenched from them. And this will happen with little or no warning for these many.
It will be for you to guide them, to comfort them and assist them through their processes and towards their healing. It will be a very rough period for so very many people. But this is a part of what has been chosen. And you guides and wayshowers are more than up to the task in dealing with this.
You will have answers for these many, beloveds. Some may not be able to stomach these answers at first. And remember, everyone will be at different stages of their grieving process. And of course, no two people react the same way to loss. So while there will be similarities, there will also be differences. Again, you will use your connection to the god within you to understand where they are in their process and what it is that may be needed of you.
Loss is not something to fear when you have an understanding of what's happened to the ‘real' being; the soul which has been released from its shell, the physical form. It will be for you to convey this understanding that people may find peace and closure.
Remember also that there will be much chaos around you and base animal instincts will set in within mankind, propelled by fear. So you will initially be wanting to provide a good measure of palpable calmness and peace to counteract. Which in turn will allow people the luxury of thinking their situations through with greater clarity.
You may be dealing with young children who have lost every member of their family. Or teenagers who are in the same or similar positions. It would be best if you could gather these ones in groups with as many adults or ‘parent figures' that they might know and feel a measure of safety, security and reassurance with. This would work especially well if these older ones are ones who have also lost THEIR younger family members. And listening within here again will see you In excellent stead, that you may make all the best choices...for all.
Bereavement, especially in the beginning stages of shock and denial on the loss of one or several loved ones is a particularly difficult phase. And the grief experienced by others will be intense and demand much of you.
There will be many animals in need of loving care also. And it would work particularly well if you suggested that groups of the grieving be tasked with this type of care-giving. More so if the people concerned have a high regard for animals. Providing this care will give people purpose in a crisis. It will also distract and interrupt their grieving while directing their energies into a positive ‘cause'.
You will come across groups of individuals who have been involved in construction and building, while others may be expert in delegating and organizing. These and other groups of specialists in their respective fields will all be able to be similarly mobilized to contribute practically in ways that are of benefit to all.
Your task is also to help bring people out of their basic animalistic nature where possible in these traumatic situations, and back into themselves. Where they can be made to understand, have their questions answered enough to provide a measure of comfort and then be given work of a practical nature.
People respond well to others in need when they themselves are in traumatic or crisis situations. It brings out the best in humanity, it has been said often. And, in fact, can be a great builder of unity consciousness. And this will be part of that which you will nurture.
Yes, you have quite a task ahead of you and we have covered some of what you are to face to aid you in your preparatory work.
Those you will be encountering will mostly be suffering multiple losses. But the one that brings the biggest life changes for many will be the shock of facing living a life without their loved one/s.
Beloved ones, we think this is ample for this evening.
And we wish you all strength, peace and composure.
We know you are quite capable, especially with all the help you are to receive.
May you all be richly blessed, divinely guided and protected.
I AM your Sa-Ra
With you every step of the way
And until we meet next
I bid you farewell.
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